Episode Details

Last week we published the first half of the session with Rhonda, who was struggling with severe performance anxiety about her work as the new host of the Feeling Good Podcast host. We did the initial T = Testing, which indicated many intense negative feelings, as well as E = Empathy phase of TEAM therapy session.

This week, we include the conclusion of the session, with A = Paradoxical Agenda Setting and M = Methods, plus final T = Testing to see how effective, or ineffective the session was.

As a reminder of the first podcast, plus the work done on this podcast, you can review Rhonda's Daily Mood Log here.

When you listen, you will see that the changes Rhonda experienced were amazing,. But were these changes real? It almost seem too easy, and too fast, especially for a problem that started in childhood and persisted right up to the present moment. Was the session just a publicity stunt, perhaps, or some kind of superficial quick fix? David asks Rhonda about this, as well as this question: 'If the changes were real, what caused the changes?

David and Rhonda used many TEAM-CBT techniques they during the session, including these:

1. David Empathized with the Five Secrets of Effective Communication at the start of the session during the E = Empathy phase. Of course, good empathy is necessary throughout a therapy session.
2. David melted away Rhonda's resistance during the A = Paradoxical Agenda Setting. These techniques included:
   1. Straightforward Invitation
   2. Miracle Cure Question
   3. Magic Button
   4. Positive Reframing
   5. Pivot Question
   6. Magic Dial
3. The M = Methods that were helpful in this session included included:
   1. The Individual Downward Arrow to identify the Self-Defeating Beliefs that triggered Rhonda's feelings of inadequacy.Rhonda enjoyed this exercise and felt it was on target. We identified many beliefs, including:
      1. Perfectionism
      2. Perceived Perfectionism
      3. Achievement Addiction
      4. Approval Addiction
      5. Love Addiction
      6. Fear of Rejection
      7. Submissiveness
      8. Inadequacy schema
      9. Spotlight Fantasy
      10. Brushfire Fallacy
      11. Superwoman
   2. The Interpersonal Downward Arrow to illuminate how Rhonda saw her relationship with her father, with David, and with some other people, including the podcast listeners. This is kind of like Psychoanalysis at warp speed. Rhonda said this felt uncomfortable, perhaps because it cast David somewhat as a dangerous ogre!
   3. David and Rhonda smashed several of Rhonda's Self-Defeating Beliefs with the Feared Fantasy Technique
   4. Identify the Distortions
   5. Paradoxical Double Standard Technique
   6. Externalization of Voices
   7. Acceptance Paradox / Self-Defense Paradigm
   8. Self-Disclosure / Exposure
   9. The Experimental Technique
   10. Thinking in Shades of Gray

Finally, if the changes were real, will they last? Or will Rhonda just slip back into more performance anxiety and self-doubt?

You can click on this link if you'd like to review the evolution of Rhonda's Daily Mood Log during the session, and see her ratings on the Brief Mood Survey before and after the session at this link. You can also review her ratings of David on the Empathy and Helpfulness scales at the end of the session. You can also review her interesting comments on what she liked the least, and what she liked the most about her session with David.

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