Podcast Episodes

DBT with Dr. Shireen Rizvi and Dr. Jesse Finkelstein, Falling Out With BFF's BF and Bottom Surgery

Gabe and a friend got lemon tattoos. A listener writes in asking about whether they are supposed to make up with their friend's partner who has become disrespectful to the friend. Then, Dr. Shireen R…

Published on 2 hours ago

TLDRI: We Are Horndogs Together!

Oops! Lots of relationship advice. Would you be in the wedding of the boyfriend who cheated on you with your best friend -- and now they're getting married? A woman forgets her friend is divorced and…

Published on 1 week ago

Male Suffering Under Patriarchy with Jacob Tobia, Age Is Just A Number, and Fibromyalgia

Allison's pregnancy update! Then, we answer a listener's question about if age is just a number (when she, younger, approached him, older). Next, they're joined by author Jacob Tobia comes by to spea…

Published on 2 weeks ago

TLDRI: Our Sixth Grade Boyfriends Are Gay

First, middle school boyfriends. R/sipstea brings us cute and funny coming out stories. Is it justified for a woman to not want to buy a house for her fiance and put his name on it? A man’s ex wife m…

Published on 3 weeks ago

Environmental Justice with Alleen Brown, Judging Weight Gain, and PR Relationships

Gabe and Allison answer a listeners question about how to handle her emotions about her changing body as she ages. Then investigative reporter Alleen Brown joins the show to discuss environmental jus…

Published on 4 weeks ago

TLDRI: Fellas, Is It Gay To Help Another Man With A Box?

Allison's very go-with-the-flow about her forthcoming baby. An OP writes about stealing items from a bully who had lots of expensive things and made everyone at school feel like shit. The choice had …

Published on 1 month ago

Spiritual Jazz with Brandee Younger, A Partner’s Anxiety, and Sentimental Items

Gabe has a new overnight job and Allison has too many questions. They then answer a listeners question about how much she should push her husband who suffers from terrible anxiety outside his comfort…

Published on 1 month, 1 week ago

TLDRI: I Don’t Want To Be In The Vatican, I Want To Be In A Cave

Allison is deep into “Sally” TikTok. Gabe has lost faith in humanity because of one subreddit Allison proposes, but learns to love it again from another. More politicians should quit. R/AmITheAsshole…

Published on 1 month, 2 weeks ago

Healing Attachment Wounds with Psychotherapist Jessica Baum, Worrying About Friend’s Marriage, and Brain Fog

Note: Gabe was having some audio issues at the beginning of the interview.

A listener writes in asking what to do now that her friend got quickie married to someone with a lot of internalized misogyny…

Published on 1 month, 3 weeks ago

TLDRI: It Has Been 18 Months Of Next Week

We don’t get into the Reddit articles until waaaaay into the episode, but first, a very good conversation about word usage and the divide between the LBT and the G communities. Then, a Redditor posts…

Published on 2 months ago