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Katherine Wela Bogen on What Gay Men Get Wrong About Bisexuality and Why It Costs All of Them
Episode 385
Gay men know what it cost to come out. Bisexual people paid that same price and then got rejected by the community that was supposed to finally under…
3 hours ago
He Was HIV Positive and Ran Toward Ground Zero Anyway: Neil Adams on Michael Dorian and the Story That Would Not Stay Untold
Episode 344
On September 11, 2001, a gay man living with HIV made a decision that had nothing to do with self-preservation. He ran toward the World Trade Center …
1 week ago
HIV Is Not Over: Andrew Spieldenner and Alex Garner on Stigma, Survival, and What Gay Men Over 40 Need to Hear
Episode 383
You lived through it. You lost people. And somewhere along the way you decided HIV was somebody else's problem now. It is not. Andrew Spieldenner and…
2 weeks ago
Morgan Rich Says the Version of Masculinity You Were Handed Was Never Going to Fit. Here Is What Does.
Episode 382
Most men were handed a version of masculinity that had no room for grief, sensitivity, or showing up as anything other than hard. Gay men got that ve…
3 weeks ago
Randy Jones Has Been Gay for 30 Years and Still Asks Himself If He Is Gay Enough
Episode 381
Thirty years with the same man. Kids. A suburban life. A career built on celebrating the best in people. And a question that never fully goes away: a…
4 weeks ago
Jeff Nally Lost His Husband Without Warning. Here Is What Nobody Tells You About Being a Gay Widower.
Episode 380
Nobody hands you a roadmap when your husband dies. Jeff Nally knows that firsthand. Sixteen months after losing Bob unexpectedly to a brain hemorrhag…
1 month ago
Corporate Rejected Joseph Federico. He Said Fine And Bet On Himself!
Episode 379
Most gay men know they are meant for something more than the corporate box they squeezed themselves into. Getting out is another story entirely. Jose…
1 month, 1 week ago
Shaun Williams Knows Why Gay Men Are Exhausted and Nobody Is Talking About It
Episode 378
Gay men are burning out in silence and calling it fine. Shaun Williams, therapist, late bloomer, and co-founder of Gay Fathers Worldwide, has spent…
1 month, 2 weeks ago
Pretty Privilege in the Gay World: Truth, Myth, and the Lie You Keep Telling Yourself – Rick Clemons
Episode 377
Better looking gay men have it easier. More matches, more attention, more forgiveness in every room they walk into. Gay culture did not invent pretty…
1 month, 3 weeks ago
Ken Breniman on Naked Yoga, Death Awareness, and Why Gay Men Over 40 Must Stop Avoiding Mortality
Episode 376
Aging hits different when you’re a gay man over 40. The body shifts. Friends disappear. Mortality stops being abstract. In this raw conversation, Ke…
2 months ago