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Vacation Clauses That Prevent Summer Custody Fights
Episode 42
Summer's coming, and if your parenting plan has a vague vacation clause, the same fights you had last year are already loading. Who asks first. How …
6 hours ago
Why the Priority List in Your Parenting Plan Matters More Than You Think
Episode 41
Larry handed you a parenting plan with a list of holidays, a list of breaks, and a line about vacations, and called it finished. He never told you w…
2 weeks ago
The Things No One Warns You About After the Divorce Is Final
Episode 40
Your attorney lied to your damn face. The divorce didn't fix anything. It just restructured the conflict and handed it back to you with new packagin…
4 weeks, 1 day ago
The 5 Boundaries That Changed Everything For Me
Episode 39
You've been telling your ex to stop for years. They never have. They never will. Because boundaries aren't what you say. They're what you damn do.
Th…
1 month ago
The Top 7 Challenges of 50/50 Custody (Especially with a High-Conflict Co-Parent)
Episode 38
Your ex didn't fight for 50/50 because they wanted more time with the damn kids. They fought for it because it was the cheapest divorce strategy on …
1 month ago
On the Stand: How to Handle Court When You're Dealing with a High-Conflict Ex
Episode 37
Hundreds of hearings later, I can spot the parent who's about to lose custody the second they walk into the courtroom.
It's not the one with the wors…
1 month, 1 week ago
Stop Calling Them High Conflict, Start Proving It
Episode 36
You stood up. You said "my ex is a narcissist." And every person in that courtroom over the age of 40 silently rolled their damn eyes at you.
Welcome…
1 month, 1 week ago
What to Do When Your Ex Refuses to Respond (And You’re Stuck Waiting)
Episode 35
Your ex read it. Four days ago. They're not answering. And you're still waiting.
That's the part that should piss you off. Not their silence. Yours. …
1 month, 2 weeks ago
“Keep It Loosey Goosey”? Why That Advice Will Ruin Your Parenting Plan
Episode 34
Your lawyer isn't protecting your ass. They're protecting their next damn retainer.
A client just emailed me telling me her attorney said to keep her…
1 month, 2 weeks ago
Why You Should NOT Do Joint Birthday Parties in Your Parenting Plan
Episode 33
The joint birthday party isn't for your kid. It's for the photo.
Sit with that. Because that's the brutal truth nobody is willing to say out loud. Yo…
1 month, 3 weeks ago