Podcast Episodes

Ep. 20: When the Betrayer Plays the Victim

Episode 20

What happens when the person who cheated on you starts acting like they’re the one who’s been hurt? Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, takes on one of the most infuriating dynamics betrayed men face…

Published on 12 hours ago

Ep. 19: The Betrayal Wasn’t Your Fault, But Healing Is Your Job

Episode 19

In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, delivers one of the most vital messages for any man facing partner betrayal: you are not to blame for what happened, but your healing is your resp…

Published on 1 week ago

Ep. 18: Boundaries Are Not Ultimatums

Episode 18

In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, tackles one of the most misunderstood topics in healing after betrayal, boundaries. If you’ve ever been accused of being controlling or harsh when…

Published on 2 weeks ago

Ep. 17: What If They Don’t Want to Work on It?

Episode 17

You’re ready to fight for the relationship… but what if your partner isn’t? This episode speaks directly to the gut-wrenching experience of being willing to rebuild while your partner stays cold, dis…

Published on 3 weeks ago

Ep. 16: Why Gaslighting Hurts So Deeply

Episode 16

Gaslighting is more than lying, it’s emotional abuse that distorts your sense of reality. In this powerful episode, Adam breaks down what gaslighting looks like in betrayal situations and why it’s so…

Published on 4 weeks ago

Ep. 15: When You’re Still Sleeping in the Same Bed

Episode 15

What happens when the person who betrayed you still shares your bed? In this raw and honest episode, Adam tackles the emotional toll of sleeping next to the partner who shattered your trust. From fee…

Published on 1 month ago

Ep. 14: The Power of Brotherhood in Healing

Men heal better in the presence of other men. In this episode, Adam shares why brotherhood, true, vulnerable connection with other men, is one of the most powerful antidotes to betrayal trauma. This …

Published on 1 month, 1 week ago

Ep. 13: How to Stop Obsessing Over the Other Person

Episode 13

What do you do when your mind won’t stop spinning about them, the person your partner cheated with? In this episode, Adam dives into the torment of obsessive thoughts about “the other person.” Whethe…

Published on 1 month, 2 weeks ago

Ep. 12: You’re Not Weak for Wanting Your Partner Back

Episode 12

What if you still want your partner back after they betrayed you? Does that make you weak, or just human? In this episode, Adam takes on one of the hardest and most shame-filled truths men carry afte…

Published on 1 month, 3 weeks ago

Ep. 11: How Betrayal Impacts Your Self-Worth

Episode 11

When your partner cheats, it doesn’t just break your heart, it breaks the mirror you see yourself through. In this raw and powerful episode, Adam dives deep into the identity collapse and loss of sel…

Published on 2 months ago