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Back to SearchEpisode 375: One Hell of a Trip to Detroit
Episode 389
We spent a weekend in Detroit to host the Real Hotwives of Detroit at Hidden Agenda. And the experience has spurred MANY conversations between us about club quality and the standard lifestylers shoul…
Published on 5 hours ago
Episode 374: One VERY Honest Single Guy
Episode 388
A message on our kink profile has had our heads spinning.... And asking questions like, "Is it really just a numbers game in the lifestyle?" Plus, Brenna had a procedure done that apparently is pissi…
Published on 1 week ago
Episode 373: It Only Took 5 Years...
Episode 387
After a 5 year hiatus from swapping with couples, we did it! Hear our thoughts on the experience, and if we plan to continue pursuing couple play in the future. Plus, this foursome might have Brenna …
Published on 2 weeks ago
Episode 372: Ew, You Dirty Swingers
Episode 386
Cognitive dissonance is a real thing. And social programming very much impacts how others view us as non-monogamous people. But does all of that programming just go out the window when we get into th…
Published on 3 weeks ago
Episode 371: I'd Rather Be Aloof Than a Creeper
Episode 385
Brian gets VERY vulnerable this time around.... He discusses how some of his past experiences, both romantic and sexual, have shaped who he is as a lifestyler, and why he is as cautious as he is. Plu…
Published on 4 weeks ago
Episode 370: Is Physical Attraction Top Priority?
Episode 384
Through conversations online recently, we may have found ourselves in some hot water with a particular opinion... So we discuss in depth: Is physical attraction the most important thing in the lifest…
Published on 1 month ago
Episode 369: We're Not Cheating, But You'd Prefer if We Were...
Episode 383
Everyone knows a person who is a cheater, who has been cheated on, or they themselves are the victim of cheating. Is that the reason infidelity seems more socially acceptable than ethical non-monogam…
Published on 1 month, 1 week ago
Episode 368: Comparison is the Thief of Joy
Episode 382
Whether it's financials, looks, frequency of play, or relationship dynamics, it's almost impossible to not compare yourself to other lifestylers and the way they are "lifestyling." But when does it b…
Published on 1 month, 2 weeks ago
Episode 367: The Married Man Dilemma
Episode 381
A controversial take on married or otherwise partnered men in the lifestyle.... We discuss some of the ire we have received over the years for our views on how men behave, especially when they are tr…
Published on 1 month, 3 weeks ago
Episode 366: A Major Takeover!
Episode 380
As we approach the 5th year anniversary of our largest event of the year, we have some important questions for each other: What do we want for the other person, and what do we want for us as a couple…
Published on 2 months ago