Podcast Episodes

Episode 394: Is Your D*** My Responsibility?

Episode 408

We all know it happens: Something doesn't work exactly as it should, we catch a funky odor, or something else happens that otherwise derails the fun.…

4 hours ago

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Episode 393: What the H*ll is Pre-Consent?

Episode 407

Brian was introduced to a new concept in the lifestyle this week: Pre-consent. It was argued that if you negotiate play prior to taking substances, i…

1 week ago

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Episode 392: The Dreaded Manosphere

Episode 406

After watching a documentary all about the rampant misogyny currently being spewed to young men on the internet, we were left with one important ques…

2 weeks ago

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Episode 391: Where's the Intimacy?

Episode 405

A very raw and honest conversation about the intimacy issues we've experienced, in part because of our involvement in the lifestyle. How did jumping …

3 weeks ago

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Episode 390: Setting Healthy Boundaries with Lifestyle Friends

Episode 404

We haven't always been the best when it comes to setting solid boundaries in our lifestyle friendships. When you combine sex with interpersonal relat…

3 weeks, 6 days ago

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Episode 389: Coming Out of the Closet

Episode 403

Brenna finally reveals the catalyst for her sobriety, and it leads to a very real and honest conversation about how we plan to navigate our professio…

1 month, 1 week ago

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Episode 388: Wait, You're HOW OLD?

Episode 402

Our birthdays have spurred a renewed conversation around age in the lifestyle, specifically how different generations interact both digitally and at …

1 month, 2 weeks ago

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Episode 387: Frumpy Men in the Lifestyle

Episode 401

It's a running joke in the lifestyle: Women are almost always better put together than their male counterparts at clubs and events. We all laugh abou…

1 month, 3 weeks ago

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Episode 386: Read the Room, Man!

Episode 400

"We're trying so hard to connect with lifestylers online, but we're having no luck! What gives?" We discuss how we are currently receiving digital co…

1 month, 4 weeks ago

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Episode 385: The Lifestyle Isn't Dead - It's Evolving

Episode 399

Stagnation and a lack of safety protocols in the lifestyle have left many lifestylers disenfranchised with clubs and events over the last year. They'…

2 months ago

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