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Back to SearchHow many people are in your 2-person conflict? #157
Season 9 Episode 157
That conflict you have with one person doesn't stop with the two of you. Maybe you vent to a friend, or process your dilemma with a colleague, or wit…
1 day, 13 hours ago
The steps to prevent a conflict before it starts #156
Season 9 Episode 156
Preventing a conflict from happening feels as good as resolving one after it happens. Conflict prevention is my favourite conflict competency. Maybe …
1 week, 1 day ago
How to be your own conflict coach #155
Season 9 Episode 155
Coaches in life, work and sports can add value to your life by helping you explore problems and create solutions. What if you become your own conflic…
2 weeks, 1 day ago
The hidden conflict skills you don't know you have 154
Season 9 Episode 154
Conflict owner’s manual has one goal: to help you think about the skills you already have so you can use those skills under pressure. That’s right. Y…
3 weeks, 1 day ago
What you lose when you insist on winning the conflict 153
Season 9 Episode 153
Do you try to get the one outcome you prefer in a conflict? You might get your desired outcome, and it might feel like you won. But did getting your …
4 weeks, 1 day ago
Silence can be a smart thing to say in conflict #152
Season 9 Episode 152
Most people have been in a conflict where angry words were exchanged, often loudly, as each party attempts to persuade, and win the argument. I show …
1 month ago
Do your beliefs about conflict add fuel to the fight? #151
Season 8 Episode 151
From our first experiences with conflict, we form beliefs about how conflict "should" be. What you believe about how conflict "should" be conducted i…
1 month, 1 week ago
Are you trying to argue someone out of their belief? Do this instead #150
Season 8 Episode 150
What people believe is how they behave.
If you're using arguments to try changing someone's rules, opinions, decisions or perspective, you aren't lik…
1 month, 2 weeks ago
How you fight vs. how often: which matters more? 149
Season 8 Episode 149
Maybe not fighting in a relationship is a good sign, and maybe it's a warning flag. How do you tell the difference? Does not fighting mean you're avo…
1 month, 3 weeks ago
If your conflict OS is outdated, so are your conflicts #148
Season 8 Episode 148
Are old problems and failed relationships still in charge of your new problems and current relationships? Here are three ways to get better at managi…
2 months ago