Podcast Episodes

"My Husband Cheated with 100 Sex Workers… While I Begged for Intimacy"

Episode 334

This letter hit hard.

A woman writes in to share her story: 20 years of marriage. Zero sex. She thought he had a medical issue. Turns out, he was sleeping with nearly 100 sex workers behind her back. …

Published on 7 hours ago

Retroactive Jealousy: Why Her Past Haunts You (And How to Stop Obsessing)

Episode 333

Men ask me all the time: “Why can’t I stop thinking about her past?” You know she had a life before you… but that doesn’t stop your brain from obsessing over every ex, every hookup, every “what if.”

T…

Published on 4 days, 7 hours ago

Why Therapists Focus on You (Not Your Avoidant Wife)

Episode 332

Why does it feel like the therapist is always on your case, even when your wife is the one shutting down emotionally?

In this video, I explain why anxious men—like many of you—end up being the focus i…

Published on 1 week ago

Why So Many Men Are Lonely (And Won’t Admit It)

Episode 331

A lot of men joke about single women dying alone with 12 cats... but here’s the truth: that’s projection.

Men are facing a loneliness crisis. We isolate ourselves, chase careers across the country, le…

Published on 1 week, 4 days ago

Why So Many Men Are Secretly Controlled by Shame (Especially Around Sex)

Episode 329

Most men carry shame. But they don’t talk about it—especially when it comes to sex.

They were raised to be "good boys," "nice guys," and "respectful partners"... but underneath that, many are dealing …

Published on 2 weeks ago

Dating After Divorce: What No One Tells You About the New Rules

Episode 328

Dating after divorce is a minefield—and if you haven't been single since your twenties, you're stepping into a completely different world.

In this video, I break down what actually happens when men re…

Published on 2 weeks, 4 days ago

The Truth About the Honeymoon Stage (and Why It Always Fades)

Episode 327

Every man has felt it—that wild rush of lust, energy, and connection in the beginning of a relationship. You can’t stop thinking about her. You’re having sex like teenagers. It feels like you finally…

Published on 3 weeks ago

“My Military Wife Checked Out of the Marriage After SSRIs & Kids”

Episode 326

In this Dear DSO, a military husband opens up about his wife emotionally and physically checking out of their marriage. After three kids, mood swings, and now being on SSRIs for anxiety, she’s not th…

Published on 3 weeks, 4 days ago

“He Forgot Our Anniversary… Again. Should I Finally Leave?”

Episode 325

A 65-year-old woman wrote in with a gut-wrenching story. After 42 years of being married to a man who never listens, never remembers their anniversary, and always puts his own priorities first, she's…

Published on 4 weeks ago

Anxious & Passive: Why You're Stuck in a Sexless Marriage

Episode 324

In this Dear DSO submission, a man reaches out from the middle of an eight-year sexless marriage. He’s passive, anxious, and paralyzed by confusion—and he’s not alone. So many men fall into this trap…

Published on 1 month ago