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#183 "Why Men'sGroups Matter in Recovery" with Alonso Pool
Season 4 Episode 183
A lot of men in recovery are doing the work: therapy, transparency, maybe even a formal disclosure. But many of them are doing it alone. They tell th…
8 hours ago
#182 She's Not Coming At You — She's Coming To You
Season 4 Episode 182
"Why is she coming at me?" It's one of the most common things men say after betrayal — when their partner's pain shows up as tears, anger, a raised v…
1 week ago
#181 Emotional Infidelity: When the Affair Was Never Physical with Jill Pool
Season 4 Episode 181
What counts as cheating if nothing physical ever happened?
In this episode, Hali sits down with Certified Partner Coach, Jill Pool to name what so oft…
2 weeks ago
#180 Doing Recovery vs. Living Recovery: What Actually Heals a Relationship After Betrayal with Mike Tiede
Season 4 Episode 180
You've done the work. So why does healing still feel like something you're performing instead of living? In this episode, Hali sits down with psychol…
3 weeks ago
#179 - 5 Ways to Stay in Your Marriage Without Losing Yourself After Infidelity and Betrayal
Season 4 Episode 179
When you're trying to heal a marriage after infidelity or betrayal, it's easy for recovery to become the center of everything.
In this episode, Hali e…
4 weeks ago
#178 Understanding Intimacy Anorexia — with Dr. Janice Caudill, PhD
Season 4 Episode 178
"Intimacy anorexia" is one of the most talked-about — and most misunderstood — terms in betrayal recovery. In this episode, I set out to understand i…
1 month ago
#177 One Hour a Week Was Never Going to Be Enough
Season 4 Episode 177
If you're a woman and you’re doing the work — therapy, coaching, reading everything you can get your hands on — and you're still white-knuckling it a…
1 month, 1 week ago
#176 The Fight Under the Fight — Decoding What Betrayal Trauma Does to Your Everyday Arguments
Season 4 Episode 176
If you're rebuilding trust after infidelity, you've probably noticed something strange: small disagreements can escalate way faster and way bigger th…
1 month, 2 weeks ago
#175 The Separation Plan Guide: Navigating Time Apart After Betrayal Trauma with Shawna Meek, PCC, CPC-S
Season 4 Episode 175
"Separation" doesn't have to mean divorce. In this episode, I'm joined by Shawna Meek of Living Stones Coaching to talk about the therapeutic separat…
1 month, 3 weeks ago
***BONUS Choosing Different Mini Series: What I Wish I'd Done Differently with my daughters, Mataia and Morgan
In this episode of the Choosing Different mini-series, Hali is joined by her daughters, Mataia and Morgan, for an honest conversation about betrayal …
2 months ago