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Back to SearchThe Silence Dialect: Why Quiet Feels Like Danger to One of You
Season 2 Episode 36
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Relationship Game Plan Call
When your partner goes quiet, what happens in your body? For some of us, it's relief. Finally, some peace.…
5 hours ago
The 90-Second Rule: What to Do When You're About to Shut Down
Season 2 Episode 35
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You're mid-conversation with your partner. It started small — the dishwasher, a tone, a missed phone call — and by sentence four, som…
1 week ago
Stop Avoiding the Hard Conversation: The Dialogue Tool That Saved Their Marriage
Season 2 Episode 34
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There's a version of every long relationship where things stop working the way they used to, and neither person quite knows how to sa…
2 weeks ago
Is Undiagnosed ADHD Quietly Driving Your Fights?
Season 2 Episode 33
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You've had the fight about the shoes by the door. The reminder texts. The unfinished closet project. You've talked about it a hundred…
3 weeks ago
Off Campus and Romantasy: Are They Helping or Hurting Your Relationship?
Season 2 Episode 32
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Between the Off Campus series, the My Fault trilogy, and whatever's currently sitting on your nightstand, something has shifted... an…
4 weeks ago
Why You Can't Stop Resenting Them: The Shame No One Talks About with Kyira Wackett
Season 2 Episode 31
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You didn't just marry your partner. You married a suitcase full of shame you don't even remember packing.
In this episode, Katie sits …
1 month ago
Clutter Blindness Is Real: Here's What It's Doing to Your Relationship
Season 2 Episode 30
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Have you actually looked at your kitchen counter lately? Like really looked?
Not the version your brain has filed under "that's just t…
1 month, 1 week ago
Frustrating In-Laws?
Season 2 Episode 29
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Ever hung up the phone with your mother-in-law and felt a strange, unnamed sadness you couldn't quite explain? Or caught yourself bui…
1 month, 2 weeks ago
Married to a Saver But You're a Spender? with Heather and Douglas Boneparth
Season 2 Episode 28
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You know the fight. It's 11pm, you're both exhausted, and somehow you're arguing about the Amex bill again. Money conflict shows up i…
1 month, 3 weeks ago
Dear Katie: We Went on Vacation and Came Back Further Apart
Season 2 Episode 27
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You planned the trip. You saved it to your phone for months. You told yourself th…
2 months ago