Podcast Episodes

SO YOU KEEP GIVING HIM CHANCES...

Season 3 Episode 32

Do you tend to feel bad when a man begs and grovels? Are you against holding grudges? Should we give men more chances?

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she reminds you of all the reasons men …

Published on 10 hours ago

REJECTION?

Season 3 Episode 31

Does rejection make you spiral? Should women stop being old-fashioned and just make the first move on a man? Should we reject men before they reject us?

In this episode, join Chidera as she discusse…

Published on 1 week, 1 day ago

IS IT TOO LATE?

Season 3 Episode 30

Is it too late to find 'the one'? What does it really mean when men call a woman 'expired'? Are men worth longing for?

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she reminds you that it is not too late…

Published on 2 weeks, 1 day ago

DESIRE IS POLITICAL

Season 3 Episode 29

Have you ever considered or questioned the politics behind your romantic desires? Is a man's attraction to you political? Do our dating preferences change with our politics?

In this episode, join Ch…

Published on 3 weeks, 1 day ago

MARRIAGE IS S*X WORK

Season 3 Episode 28

Do you see marriage for the negotiated contract that it is, or do you see marriage as a purely spiritual union, devoid of any power dynamics or transactions? Does the idea of marriage being compared …

Published on 4 weeks ago

DATING OLDER MEN VS YOUNGER MEN

Season 3 Episode 27

What's all the hype surrounding dating younger men? Are older men a better option? Should there be an age limit for age gap relationships?

In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses her preferen…

Published on 1 month ago

REPEATING THE SAME MISTAKE

Season 3 Episode 26

Are you trapped in a redundant loop of making the same mistake? Does your impulsivity betray you? Are you finally ready to leave your destructive life behind?

In this episode, join The Slumflower as…

Published on 1 month, 1 week ago

LISTEN TO THIS BEFORE YOU GO ON THAT DATE!

Season 3 Episode 25

Are you off to see that man? Do you feel tempted to make it easier for him? Is your gut reliable enough for you to be dating right now?

In this episode, join Chidera as she lovingly warns you about …

Published on 1 month, 2 weeks ago

ABOUT STINGY MEN...

Season 3 Episode 24

Is he stingy or does he just not like you? What happens if you have kids with a stingy man? Should we cheat on stingy men?

In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses why we should all exp…

Published on 1 month, 3 weeks ago

MISSING HIM?

Season 3 Episode 23

Do you miss him? Has the amnesia suddenly hit you and now you can't remember why you cut him off to begin with? Are you tempted to go back?

In this episode, join Chidera as she talks through the rea…

Published on 2 months ago