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The Theory of Change Behind PDA Accommodations: Why Lowering Demands Is Not Enough | Ep. 184
Season 1 Episode 184
Why do accommodations like lowering demands, providing autonomy, and using declarative language actually work for PDA children and teens over the lon…
2 days, 12 hours ago
PDA and School: Patterns, Advocacy, and Accommodations With Dr. Alex Klein | Ep. 183
Season 1 Episode 183
It is back to school season here in the US, and for most families raising PDA children and teens, that means navigating one of the most structurally …
1 week, 2 days ago
To School or Not to School: A Decision Making Framework for Parents of PDA Children and Teens | Ep. 182
Season 1 Episode 182
Should my PDA child stay in the public school system, move to a private school, or homeschool? There is no single answer, and this episode is not goi…
2 weeks, 2 days ago
Screens Are Not So Scary, Reducing Autonomy Is: Restoring Childhood With Dr. Peter Gray | Ep. 181
Season 1 Episode 181
Why are so many children and teens struggling with anxiety, depression, and school refusal right now? And why are so many of them PDA? I have been ca…
3 weeks, 2 days ago
Education and PDA at a Sudbury School: A Conversation With Bryer Newlin | Ep. 180
Season 1 Episode 180
What if a school had no mandatory classes, no grades, no homework, and no age segregation, and instead gave students a genuine vote in how the school…
1 month ago
Throwback: 5 Ways to Recognize Pathological Demand Avoidance at School | Ep. 179
Season 1 Episode 179
This episode is a throwback to one of the most popular episodes in the history of this podcast, originally recorded as a live presentation I gave in …
1 month, 1 week ago
Educational Exclusion, Radical Trust, and What PDA-Affirming Schooling Looks Like: Otto Specht School | Ep. 178
Season 1 Episode 178
What does it look like when a school actually meets a PDA child where they are, without behavior charts, compliance goals, or pressure to perform? In…
1 month, 2 weeks ago
One Year Later: Justin's Story of Progress With His PDA Son | Ep. 177
Season 1 Episode 177
What does a year of applying the PDA lens actually look like in a real family? Justin joined the Paradigm Shift Program in the summer of 2025 and is …
1 month, 2 weeks ago
Basic Needs and Pathological Demand Avoidance: Toileting, Sleep, Hygiene, Eating, and Safety | Ep. 176
Season 1 Episode 176
When I first started learning about PDA six years ago, so much of what I encountered was focused on behavior. What I was not seeing discussed was som…
1 month, 3 weeks ago
Throwback: Is Pathological Demand Avoidance the Same as Autism, ADHD, or Anxiety? | Ep. 175
Season 1 Episode 175
There is a lot of noise in the PDA space right now, and some of it is making parents doubt themselves and feel more confused rather than less. So I a…
2 months ago