Podcast Episodes

Secrets of a sex cult: when pleasure gets weaponized with Ellen Huet

Season 13 Episode 3

This week, we're talking about how sexuality can be used to coerce people in cultlike settings, through the lens of Ellen Huet's new book EMPIRE OF ORGASM: Sex, Power, and the Downfall of a Wellnes…

Published on 2 hours ago

Is it normal to always feel sore after sex?

Season 13 Episode 2

What's a normal amount of pain to feel after sex? Is everyone else sore after sex and not talking about it? How can you make sex less painful and more pleasurable? Today, learn from DB about what is …

Published on 1 week ago

Cutting Edge Pleasure Research for Queer Black Women with Dr. Shemeka Thorpe

Season 13 Episode 1

Black folks are often left out of research studies. Queer people are often left out of research studies. Women are often left out of research studies. So if you're a Black queer woman, there's hardly…

Published on 2 weeks ago

SEX ED WITH DB SEASON 13 TRAILER: EVEN MORE PLEASURE!

Season 13

You all loved Season 12 so much, we're running it back -- and bringing you EVEN MORE PLEASURE! This season we're covering everything you want to know about pleasure, orgasms, sex cults, BDSM, and so …

Published on 2 weeks, 1 day ago

BEST OF: MASTURBATION

This best-of episode is all about MASTURBATION! Taken from our backlog to bring back our best advice, histories, and myth-busting all about self-pleasure to wrap up our first pleasure season! How do …

Published on 2 weeks, 6 days ago

BEST OF: PLEASURE

This best-of episode is all about PLEASURE! Taken from some of our favorite episodes in Season 12, our first season all about pleasure, you'll get tips and ruminations on how to get the most pleasure…

Published on 3 weeks, 6 days ago

Give Mindblowing Blowjobs with Shameless Sex Hosts Amy Baldwin and April Lampert

Season 12 Episode 20

In this episode, DB talks with Amy and April from the FANTASTIC podcast Shameless Sex! It's the final episode of Season 12 all about pleasure, and we're talking all about blowjobs (or blowies -- or b…

Published on 1 month ago

Inside the Bedroom of a REAL Long-Term Couple (Between Us)

Season 12 Episode 19

In this episode, DB talks to a real couple living in long-term monogamy and still getting so much pleasure and chemistry from each other. This couple's story is so sweet and fascinating, with some in…

Published on 1 month, 1 week ago

Keeping Pleasure Alive in Long-term Monogamy with with Dr. Lexx Brown-James

Season 12 Episode 18

In this episode, DB talks with Dr. Lexx about SO many different kinds of pleasure and how to keep pleasure centered in a long-term monogamous relationship. It isn't always just about sex -- pleasure …

Published on 1 month, 1 week ago

How do I handle jealousy in a monogamous OR ENM relationship?

Season 12 Episode 17

This week, DB reflects on last week's fantastic conversation with Certified Sex Therapist Claire Perelman. Let's take a moment to really unpack jealousy and envy, no matter if you're ENM or monogamo…

Published on 1 month, 2 weeks ago