Podcast Episodes

How Can Change Be Funny, Scary, and Uncomfortable… and Still Be Necessary for Growth? (with Mackie Overbay)

Season 1 Episode 456

Tony and his daughter Mackie (@beautybymackie) catch up on a lot of life. Since the last time they hit record, Mackie has navigated big career shifts, health challenges, and new adventures. Tony has …

Published on 1 day, 7 hours ago

Turning Negativity Into Insight: Julie De Jesus on Interviewing Kevin Franke and What the Comments Reveal About Us

Season 1 Episode 455

Tony sits down with his friend and Love, ADHD co-host, Julie De Jesus, to unpack her recent interview with Kevin Franke, ex-husband of Ruby Franke. Ruby, the former “8 Passengers” YouTuber, pled guil…

Published on 2 weeks, 4 days ago

Blinded by Belief: How Your Brain Defends Its Favorite Story - Even When It's Wrong!

Season 1 Episode 454

Have you ever tried to change someone’s mind—and watched them dig in even deeper? Or wondered why, even when you want to change your own beliefs, it feels like pushing against an invisible force? In …

Published on 1 month ago

Live Q&A with Sydney Overbay: Perception vs. Reality, Emotional Immaturity and Growth, Faith Deconstruction, ADHD & More

Season 1 Episode 453

What do a therapist dad, his adult daughter, and a live stream full of honest questions have in common? A raw, insightful, and often hilarious live Q&A.

In this special live episode, therapist Tony Ov…

Published on 1 month, 1 week ago

The Emotional Immaturity Epidemic with Steph and Craig: Why Adults Are Stuck in Childhood Patterns

Season 1 Episode 452

What if an entire generation is emotionally stuck in childhood—and doesn't even know it?

In this compelling guest appearance on The Steph and Craig Show, Tony dives deep into what he calls "the emotio…

Published on 2 months ago

Genuine Curiosity: Not All Questions Are Equal – Are You Trying to Understand, Defend, Manipulate, or Control?

Season 1 Episode 451

Are you truly being curious—or just trying to win the argument? Tony explores the difference between genuine curiosity and performative questions, sharing real-life examples and tools to help you res…

Published on 2 months, 2 weeks ago

Shift: Managing Your Emotions So They Don’t Manage You by Ethan Kross - Virtual Couch Book Club w/Marla Christiansen, APCC

Season 1 Episode 450

Marla Christensen, AMFT, APCC, and Tony Overbay, LMFT, delve into Ethan Kross's "Shift: Managing Your Emotions So They Don't Manage You" for another installment of the "Virtual Couch Book Club." They…

Published on 3 months ago

Childhood Survival Skills That Sabotage Your Adult Relationships - Part 2: The Path to Emotional Maturity - The Climb Out

Season 1 Episode 449

What if the very strategies that saved you as a child are now sabotaging your adult relationships?

In Part 2 of Tony's series on emotional immaturity, discover why your most persistent relationship st…

Published on 3 months, 1 week ago

Trapped by Trauma Bonds: A Guide for Those Suffering and Those Watching from the Outside

Season 1 Episode 448

Have you ever watched someone you care about repeatedly return to a relationship that's clearly hurting them, despite all logic and reason? Or found yourself unable to break free from a partner who a…

Published on 3 months, 3 weeks ago

Pick Me Behaviors, Emotional Immaturity, and the Cost of Not Knowing Yourself: Is True Honesty in Relationships Possible? Tony and Mackie Overbay Live QA

Season 1 Episode 447

Do you avoid difficult conversations, hoping problems will magically disappear? Do you convince yourself you don’t need to write things down, because of course you’ll remember later? Or maybe you cat…

Published on 4 months ago