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Cat Roebuck and Paula Pate On The Crucible Approach To Couples Therapy!
Season 5 Episode 14
Today I'm joined by two wonderful providers we have at Best Life Behavioral Health: Paula Pate and Cat Roebuck. We do a deep dive into a couples therapy modality they both use that I don't know m…
Published on 8 hours ago
Three (Actually Four) Concrete Tips To Improve Date Night
Season 5 Episode 12
Many people struggle with practical ways to enact some of my marriage tips, which is why I try to add in some very concrete strategy episodes. Here was going to be three direct and actionable tips to…
Published on 6 days, 14 hours ago
Love Isn't Tallying Shit Up
Season 5 Episode 11
Stop counting stuff up, whether it's chores or date nights or sexual encounters. This is literally killing any potential for closeness in your relationship.
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Published on 1 week, 2 days ago
"If You Were A Single Parent You'd Have To Do Everything Yourself" But Wait
Season 5 Episode 10
This is illogical. If you want to split everything exactly down the middle because "that's what would happen after divorce".... you've never been divorced lol. And also, this philosophy may be why yo…
Published on 1 week, 5 days ago
When Your Partner's Friends/Family Dislike You
Season 5 Episode 8
Straight talk on this common issue that I see in pursuer-distancer couples, especially preoccupied women with avoidant men. Often your issues with the family mask your deeper relationship issues. If …
Published on 2 weeks, 4 days ago
Who Lies In Therapy, And Why?
Season 5 Episode 7
Today I discuss the reasons that people are dishonest in therapy, how to reframe this, and a challenge if you're in therapy for your next session!
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Published on 3 weeks ago
When Your Defensiveness Stops Sex In Its Tracks
Season 5 Episode 6
Many men underestimate how much of a turnoff defensiveness is to women. Even if a woman wanted to have sex with you that evening, an interaction where you are defensive will turn that incipient desir…
Published on 3 weeks, 3 days ago
Is Your Relationship Like Chat GPT?
Season 5 Episode 4
Some people are in a dynamic that's like Chat GPT... and they don't even know until it stops! Today I discuss who gets into this type of dynamic (on BOTH sides), and when it frequently ends.
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Published on 4 weeks, 2 days ago
Interview With A Sexologist... Heather Ray!
Season 5 Episode 3
You may know Heather Ray from the workshops and videos she's done for the practice: Lick It Right, Partner's Guide To Female Pleasure, and Blow His Mind (buy them here: https://www.bestlifebehavioral…
Published on 1 month ago
When You Try And Make Up For Not Having Had Young, Casual Sex Within Your Marital Sex Life
Season 5 Episode 2
Today I discuss when men who are late bloomers or "gentleman eunuchs" try to have wild and experimental sex in their marriages to compensate for not having had young, casual sex. As always, there is …
Published on 1 month ago