Podcast Episodes

Compulsive Lying in Relationships: Why You Lie When You Don't Need To (and How to Stop)

Season 2

For anyone who lies to their partner, even about small things, and hates that they do. Caleb and Verlynda explain why some lies come out before you'v…

11 hours ago

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Am I Addicted to Porn? The Signs That Actually Matter

Season 2

If you've wondered whether you're actually addicted to porn or just watch a lot, this episode is for you. Caleb Simonyi-Gindele, a Certified Sex Addi…

1 week ago

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Is Paying for OnlyFans Cheating? Why It Feels Like an Affair to Betrayed Partners

Season 2 Episode 318

You found the messages, the tips, the custom videos, and you were told it was "just porn." Caleb and Verlynda explain why paid, two-way contact with …

2 weeks ago

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The Anxious-Avoidant Trap: Why One of You Reaches and the Other Goes Quiet

Season 2

For couples where one of you keeps reaching and the other keeps shutting down, this episode goes underneath the pursue-withdraw pattern to the two at…

4 weeks ago

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I Ended the Affair. Why Isn't That Enough?

Season 2

For the person who ended the affair and cannot understand why their partner is still devastated, and for the partner watching that relief from inside…

1 month ago

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When You Find the Money: Financial Infidelity After Sexual Betrayal

Season 2 Episode 317

For the betrayed partner who found the hidden card, the cash withdrawals, or the monthly transfer, and was surprised by how much the money part hurt.…

1 month ago

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Lonely in Marriage: Why You Can Share a Bed and Still Feel Alone

Season 2

If you have ever sat next to someone you love and felt completely alone, this episode is for you. Verlynda and Caleb unpack why loneliness inside a c…

1 month, 1 week ago

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Betrayal Trauma or PTSD? Why You Can't Just Get Over It

Season 2

If you have the flashbacks and the hypervigilance and the sleep that will not come, and someone has told you it is time to move on, this episode is f…

1 month, 1 week ago

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Why the Betrayer Shuts Down: The Shame Collapse Behind the Silence

Season 2

If you have gone completely blank while your partner asked questions about what you did, this episode is for you. Caleb and Verlynda break down what …

1 month, 2 weeks ago

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When Porn Talks Back: AI Companions, Deepfakes, and Why Interactive Porn Hooks Harder

Season 2 Episode 316

AI porn is not one thing: it is four, and the kinds that talk back reach deeper than video ever could. Caleb and Verlynda explain why AI companions h…

1 month, 2 weeks ago

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