Podcast Episodes
Back to Search140. Now Write 'Submissive ≠ Passive' 50 Times On The Blackboard While I Pelt Chalk At You
Season 3 Episode 86
Lina takes the mic this week to clarify a misunderstanding about the responsibility of subs in D/s dynamics, how both partners can bring 100%, and once again breaks the bad news that, yes, we have to…
Published on 1 day ago
139. How To F*ck Like A Girl with Vera Blossom
Season 3 Episode 85
How DO you f*ck like a girl?? Vera Blossom has the answers in her debut essay collection by the same name, a trans coming of age that reads like an epic poem made out with a tumblr blog in a public b…
Published on 1 week ago
138. The Non-Verbal Mambo
Season 3 Episode 84
Lina is back and we're easing you back in with a medium-unhinged episode title & a discussion about how to bolster communication among the neurospicy folks in your dynamic (insert us, the caller, the…
Published on 2 weeks, 1 day ago
137. Kink Event Girl! Put The Bass In Your Walk, Head To Toe Let Your Whole Body Talk
Season 3 Episode 83
Hey raccoons! Lina's still away on her meditation retreat so it's Mr. Dune again. Don't worry, Lina will be back next week (she's coming home tomorow 🎉) and the episode titles and descriptions will r…
Published on 3 weeks, 1 day ago
136. Switch On Me Once, Shame On.. Shame On You. Switch On Me Twice... A Switch Can't Get Switched On Again
Season 3 Episode 82
Hey ya'll, Lina's off on a meditation retreat out of cell phone range so it's Mr. Dune's job to write up the title and the podcast description for this week's episode, so please don't blame Lina for …
Published on 4 weeks ago
135. From the Subby Archives: The Origins Of The Folsom Street Fair
Season 3 Episode 81
In honor of the Folsom Street Fair happening this weekend, we're rummaging through the Ask a Sub Supply Closet full of lube and butt plugs to bring you this gem on the history of the fair, so cue up …
Published on 1 month ago
134. Living Truthfully on an Imaginary First Date
Season 3 Episode 80
Ok so if kink isn't role play for you but you want to inject some role play in your kink… what the heck do you do? This Hellraiser-style puzzle box has summoned Lina from beyond the grave to ponder t…
Published on 1 month, 1 week ago
133. The Wonderful World of Thuddy Impact Toys
Season 3 Episode 79
A listener wants to enter THE THUD ZONE *guitar solo* *flames* *monster truck* and Lina activates her Special Interest mode to outline what makes a toy thuddy, why masochists love them, what to buy, …
Published on 1 month, 2 weeks ago
132. In Praise Of Pickiness
Season 3 Episode 78
When are we being too picky with our play partners? Listen, nothing is perfect, but if your ick is "doesn't respect my boundaries" or "is unsafe" … time to yeet.
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Published on 1 month, 3 weeks ago
131. Ugly Sex with Margeaux Feldman AKA Softcore Trauma
Season 3 Episode 77
Margeaux Feldman joined me for a deep dive into their work around trauma, sexuality, chronic illness, and queerness. Get Margeaux's upcoming book 'Touch Me I'm Sick' at your local indie bookstore or …
Published on 2 months ago