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Back to Search133. The Wonderful World of Thuddy Impact Toys
Season 3 Episode 79
A listener wants to enter THE THUD ZONE *guitar solo* *flames* *monster truck* and Lina activates her Special Interest mode to outline what makes a toy thuddy, why masochists love them, what to buy, …
Published on 15 hours ago
132. In Praise Of Pickiness
Season 3 Episode 78
When are we being too picky with our play partners? Listen, nothing is perfect, but if your ick is “doesn’t respect my boundaries” or “is unsafe” … time to yeet.
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Published on 6 days, 13 hours ago
131. Ugly Sex with Margeaux Feldman AKA Softcore Trauma
Season 3 Episode 77
Margeaux Feldman joined me for a deep dive into their work around trauma, sexuality, chronic illness, and queerness. Get Margeaux’s upcoming book ‘Touch Me I’m Sick’ at your local indie bookstore or …
Published on 1 week, 6 days ago
130. The Republican Dommy Mommy Archetype
Season 3 Episode 76
Today Lina reads a piece that’s popping off on her substack about the intersection of The Hunting Wives, Susan Sontag, fascism, and Leather aesthetics. Why are we horny for what scares us? Well step …
Published on 3 weeks ago
129. On Not Turning Your Daddy Into Your Dad
Season 3 Episode 75
A caller has gone no contact with her parents and wants to know how to be mindful with not projecting that trauma on her Daddy Dom. As a bit of an expert on this topic, Lina discusses the ins and out…
Published on 4 weeks ago
128. Is Everybody Frickin’ Poly Or What??
Season 3 Episode 74
It’s summer. It’s hot. It’s sexy. And what’s more hot and sexy than… endless scheduling and calendars? A caller wants to know how to stay sane while single and it seems that everyone in the dating po…
Published on 1 month ago
127. The Things You Cannot Unsee In Public Play Spaces (And Why You Should See *Some* Of Them)
Season 3 Episode 73
We got a write-in question from a Patreon member wondering how to prepare for a big public kink event like Folsom, and Lina gets into creating a plan for regulation, connection, and what to do when y…
Published on 1 month, 1 week ago
126. Quick Hits: Objectification, Romance Fiction, and The Skeezy Little Black Book
Season 3 Episode 72
Hey it’s the episode where you write in and ask about the light or deep kink questions that are on your mind! Today we’re talking about how being a human ottoman can activate your parasympathetic ner…
Published on 1 month, 2 weeks ago
125. The Clown Serenity Prayer with Gutter the Mod
Season 3 Episode 70
What do online privacy, sex work decrim, fire butt pix, and clowns have in common? Well they’re all special interests of our Deep Dive guest this month — Gutter! Gutter is one of our long time modera…
Published on 1 month, 3 weeks ago
124. Do You Have To Bring Your 35-Year-Old Boyfriend To The Olive Garden?
Season 3 Episode 69
Should we keep our friendships separate from our D/s dynamics? Should we merge all our relationships, friendships, and situationships into the world's largest cuddle puddle? What can we learn, aside …
Published on 2 months ago