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Back to Search290. The Announcement
Episode 290
After more than five years and almost 300 episodes, Ali is ending the public podcast. In this solo episode she says it out loud for the first time, a…
6 hours ago
289. What I Only Say on Patreon
Episode 289
Ali is away this week, so this episode goes behind the Patreon paywall. It pulls together four of her favorite Updates segments from the last few mon…
1 week ago
288. Hot Topics #24: The Half Full Glass on the Counter
Episode 288
Ali is back with another Hot Topics episode answering listener questions. She opens with a question about her own path toward getting evaluated for A…
2 weeks ago
287. What Everyone Can Learn From Kink ft. Amanda Dames, aka The Kink Consultant
Episode 287
Ali sits down with Amanda Dames, aka The Kink Consultant, a sex and relationship coach and former NYC dominatrix, for a conversation that might surpr…
3 weeks ago
286. What Your Jealousy Is Trying to Tell You ft. Ally Iseman
Episode 286
This week Ali sits down with relationship coach Ally Iseman, founder of Passport 2 Pleasure, for a full reframe of the emotion we love to hate. Ally'…
4 weeks ago
285. Moving In Together, Part 3 ft. Skyline
Episode 285
Ali is joined by Skyline for part three of the moving-in-together series, and this time he is in the chair to answer for the version Ali told solo in…
1 month ago
284. Decentering Men When You're Already Partnered ft. Sam Showalter
Episode 284
Ali is joined by creator Sam Showalter, who went viral for a series about decentering her own husband. Eleven years into a relationship with her now-…
1 month, 1 week ago
283. Moving In Together, Part 2: The Emotional Side of Sharing a Home
Episode 283
We're continuing the multi-part moving-in series inspired by listener questions. In part two, Ali gets into the stuff you can't put in a spreadsheet:…
1 month, 2 weeks ago
282. Moving In Together, Part 1: Money, Chores, and the Mental Load
Episode 282
We’re talking all about moving in with a partner in this multi-part series I inspired by listener questions. In part one, Ali breaks down the practic…
1 month, 3 weeks ago
281. Why Self-Sufficient Women Are Still Codependent ft. Esin Pinarli
Episode 281
Esin Pinarli, a psychotherapist with 18 years of experience, joins Ali to talk about people-pleasing, attachment, and what she calls modern codepende…
2 months ago