Podcast Episodes

S16 Ep280: Love Is Forged, Not Found: Gabe & Rebekah Lyons on Marriage That Lasts

Today we’re hanging out with Gabe and Rebekah Lyons as they get real about the ups and downs of 28 years of marriage, forging love through conflict, why the spark isn’t everything, and how healing co…

Published on 9 hours ago

S16 Ep279: How to Build Healthy Honest Emotional Intimacy in Dating with Dr. Glenn & Phyllis Hill

Today we’re joined by Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill as they walk us through the power of the Connection Codes, sharing their story of overcoming emotional disconnection in marriage and giving us practic…

Published on 1 week ago

S16 Ep278: Equally Yoked vs Missionary Dating - Addison & Juli Bevere

Today we’re diving deep into what it means to be equally yoked as Addison and Julie Bevere join Kait and JJ to unpack spiritual compatibility, missional dating, and their own journey from MySpace DMs…

Published on 2 weeks ago

Christian Bachelor, Ghosting & HODC 2026 Scoop

Our Christian Bachelor sat down for three 5-minute dates… and had to choose who to continue with. 🌹 Meanwhile, Kait & JJ dove into your top questions on ghosting, keeping God at the center of dating,…

Published on 2 weeks, 5 days ago

S16 Ep277: Are Your PREFERENCES Keeping You Single?

Today we're diving into the realities of compromise in relationships as Kait and JJ unpack why holding too tightly to our preferences—like location, routines, or lifestyle—can make dating harder, esp…

Published on 3 weeks ago

S16 Ep276: What if we're not compatible? with Jamal Miller

Today we’re diving deep with Jamal Miller as he unpacks the true difference between compatibility and suitability in Christian dating, challenging us to pursue purposeful partnerships that go beyond …

Published on 4 weeks ago

S16 Ep275: The 7 Core Needs That Sabotage or Save Your Relationships with Mike Foster

Today, Mike Foster joins Kait and JJ to unpack the seven primal questions driving our core needs, how childhood imprints impact our dating lives, and why knowing your own—and your partner’s—deepest q…

Published on 1 month ago

S16 Ep274: Arousal, Desire & Lust: The Sex Talk You Never Got

Today, Sam Joelman joins Kait and JJ for a candid and healing conversation about arousal, sexual ethics, and navigating boundaries in Christian dating, reframing shame around sexuality, and empowerin…

Published on 1 month, 1 week ago

S16 Ep273: Pacing and Boundaries: How Fast is Too Fast?

Today we’re kicking off Season 16 with Pastor Stephen Chandler, who’s giving us the real talk on dating timelines, pacing relationships, and building true friendship before you sprint to engagement!

Published on 1 month, 2 weeks ago

The Dating Advice You ACTUALLY Need | Patreon Aug 25

Confused by conflicting dating advice? 😅 Kait and JJ reveal why your dating personality type changes everything and the kind of advice that will finally make sense for you.

Find out your Dating Perso…

Published on 1 month, 3 weeks ago